Elizabeth Gruber
Username
LizGVideo
City
Newton
State
MA
Family
Married, with three children, ages 18, 16 and 12 (two girls and a boy).
Occupation
Community Development Banker
Hobbies
Music, running, reading, skiing, theatre, the beach and mountains, and spending time with family & friends.
Favorite Books
Too many to choose from.
Proudest Moment
The births of our three children, and crossing the finish line of the Boston Marathon after raising $22,000 from 300+ donors, for Dana Farber (as part of the Dana Farber Marathon Challenge Team).
Where I look for inspiration
Courageous people facing life-threatening situations – like a cancer diagnosis and treatment.
LIFE "ON THE OTHER SIDE OF CANCER"
I am a
Survivor in Remission
Biggest Fear When Diagnosed
I learned how important my everyday/”normal” life really is, and how it’s the little moments that we experience, every day, that are to be treasured. I also learned how to let people help me, something that was hard for me at first – but when I allowed people in, I was astounded at how much love and support came back my way not only form my incredible family and dearest friends, but from complete strangers and casual acquaintances. Connections with other people – that’s what makes us strong and makes life worth living.
What would you like to tell other women who are either newly diagnosed or too afraid to seek treatment?
The one thing that you would like to tell other women who are newly diagnosed and/or too afraid to seek treatment: You have just been admitted to a very special club. No one wants to be a member of this club, but it is a place where, no matter what you say or do or feel, everyone belongs and is immediately accepted and understood. You will always share a common bond, and you are not alone. You are stronger than you realize. There are so many women who have faced what you are going through, and who will help you through this most challenging of times if you reach out and ask. Once you make it through those early decisions, know that you will be on the road to recovery. Although you will never be the same person you once were, after a cancer diagnosis, you will be better in many ways – more honest, compassionate and you will see everything in the world with greater clarity, focus and a love of life’s simple pleasures.
Best advice given to me by a Survivor
I had lots of people tell me about loved ones who had been diagnosed with breast cancer. Of course the stories I liked best were about the women who were still going strong after 10, 20 & 30+ years !
