f8thinu

Username

f8thinu

City

Las Vegas

State

NV

Family

Two daughters and a husband

Occupation

Pit Clerk Mirage

Hobbies

Quilting memory quilts

Favorite Books

Harry Potter

Proudest Moment

Yet to come. I want to survive to turn 50 years old. This year.

Where I look for inspiration

All around me.

LIFE "ON THE OTHER SIDE OF CANCER"

I am a

Survivor in Remission

Age at Diagnosis

35

Diagnosed

Breast cancer

Biggest Fear When Diagnosed

I would be the 6th to die of breast cancer in our family.

How did you overcome that fear?

My two daughters where my fight. I had to overcome it and show it's not a death sentence.

What got you through your cancer experience?

Laughing, Praying, Love from friends and family.

What advice would you like to pass on to others?

Play Miss Packman in your mind at night as you go to sleep. Send her through your body in all the viens and give yourself points as she cleans your body of cancer cells. P.S. you get 5000 points for tumors! I did that for all these years. I have shared with many how this seems to work. Others have said they started this Miss Packman game. I don't know I just started to do it on my own and it helps to tell my body to work for me against the cancer.

What would you like to tell other women who are either newly diagnosed or too afraid to seek treatment?

GO GET TREATED! The fear is much worse then the outcome. You can't fight with out the tools. We have all been fighting for those tools for you and now if you don't use them it will fall to the next person to fight. You are brave or you would not seek out this wonderful site. You can be part of a wonderful group we call survivors. If you don't fight then you can't be one of us now can you. Go! Fight! Survive! You can do it! We are all here with you.

Best advice given to me by a Survivor

You will go through a lot of guilt for needing help. Get over that and own the cancer. Only you can fix this and it will be a lot of work but it's worth the help you get from others. They are waiting to help.

MY STORY

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I thought my life was ending in Oct. of 2005. I knew I had breast cancer in my heart but was told, I did not by a doctor three years before so I left it go. The lump kept growing and the breast kept leaking. In Oct. of 2005 a guy I was dating took me to a clinic and said it was for him. So I went and when he got to the window he told the lady I needed to see a doctor. She said they where booked but could make me an appointment. I said no that's ok I'll make one another time. He spun me sideways and said look at the lump on her breast! You could see it because I could no longer wear a bra. She ask me is that the lump? I said yes and she left the window and came around to the door and told me to come in. I sat by the door only for a small amount of time when they took me into a room where a doctor came in. It was only another short amount of time before they took me for a mammogram. It really hurt. They still could not see the lump. Then off to the ultrasound I went. It took one look from the lady doing it for me to know I was in big trouble. Two doctors came in and looked. One second I was just me and the next I was a scared little girl. They took me in for biopsy the next day and I woke up looking at the doctors face. "You have breast cancer" he said. I said " I know"! Then made him say it again. Within a matter of weeks I lost one breast, then another. Was it worth it? Yes! Yes! Yes! Chemotherapy was really bad but worth ever bit of the fight. I have a daughter in Iraq fighting and I think we fight two wars in this family.